Excerpt from an Instant Message conversation with my sister:
Corngirl521: as someone very wise once said, "i love you, but i'm not in love with you", ya know?
meredithlynnec: you ARE referring to that time Dylan said that to Brenda, right?
Corngirl521: oh yeah
If she would only come around and accept there is no intrinsic connection between the signifier and the signified, she'd be perfect.